If you live in a state where they have legally recognized common law marriage and you meet what the state requires for one, then yes.
Q: Does VA recognize common law marriages? A: VA will recognize a common law marriage if the state in which the Veteran resides recognizes common law marriage, and the state's requirements for a common law marriage are met.
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